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Richard Warner's avatar

This is just great, I love the clear framework. Particularly the ‘application’ element which is often not highlighted enough i.e. how do we take what we have learned into daily life?

For me, not judging my state of mind is still a challenge, even after 25 years of practice, but on a positive note - the edges of the judgment have worn off quite a bit!

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Learning to view meditation as becoming familiar with my own human mind has been liberating and insightful. Any state of mind (which is also a state of body) - pleasant or unpleasant - is worth observing in awareness. No state of mind needs to be judged or changed. My mind doesn't need to be judged or changed! For years, I believed there was something wrong with my mind, and health care professionals with the best of intentions strengthened the belief with diagnoses - depression, anxiety, dissociation - because they were not able to help me without them; the problem needed to be identified, and the problem was my mind. I do catch myself wanting my state of mind to change during meditation, for the monkey 🐒 to calm down, and wanting to judge myself because of this desire, but learning to view the wanting as love and compassion for myself, as the desire to be happy and free from suffering, takes the edge off the judgement, and softens my relation with myself, really.

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