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Anne Benson's avatar

Many years ago when i started a local sunday school for children of buddhist parents, I ask two of my most respected teachers for advice as to what was the most important thing to teach children. Amala (Chamba Chuchi, wife of Kangyur Rinpoche) said "help them learn how to live together in harmony".

Lama Guendeun (A khampa yogi who had spent 30 years in solitary retreat) said: "Give them tools so that they can find their own inner light."

I think mindfulness should be seen as a tool, not a goal. One of many tools we need to share with our children. Without compassion and moral guidelines, mindfulness it is worse than not; it sharpens the intellect which then serves the ego and not the greater good. When i do shamatta sessions with children (ages 5 to 17) we always start by each one voicing a positive wish and the intention to help oneself and others.

And yes I totally agree, children are incredibly sensitive to authenticity and will not believe nor even listen to a teacher who doesn't walk the talk. They are not asking for perfect adults, they need to see that we also are trying our best and learning from our mistakes. Humility is such a beautiful quality.

Another thing the children taught me is to be curious and ask them to search for methods and means to solve problems, spiritual, ethical and practical. When they search for and find a solution, they accept it and remember it. Thank you for everything you do to make the world a better place.

Joanna Hughes's avatar

I came to the conclusion years ago that was better to work with the teachers / school staff and help them flourish as they know the pupils and create ' the weather in the classroom '. It's the focus of my book, The Mindful Teachers Handbook: How To Step Out Of Busyness And Find Peace. https://www.crownhouse.co.uk/the-mindful-teachers-handbook

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